Thanks for responding all. I was quite surprised when I awoke this morning and found three replies already.
Ya, I don't get it either. I can understand a vet not wanting to talk; that's his prerogative. But someone who had already befriended Ben and had a obvious interest in veterans? I'm sure if he were still alive he would be equally befuddled and a bit sad too! 
Luckily I have only run into this once, for I've never been "spurned" before when trying to talk to someone about THE WAR. However I HAVE run into this with other WOMEN outside the forum in every day life. My husband has seen this occur, and we've both come to the conclusion that they don't want anyone stealing their limelight. Maybe they see it as a competition thing. Dunno!
Brooke, I too think it's just great to share with others, for it makes it that much BETTER! 
Well here's to all the wonderful, kind sharing folks out there, for they FAR OUTNUMBER the occasional few who just make you shake your head!! 
Rocky, you naughty boy! Just kidding!!! 
Proud Daughter of Walter (Monday) Poniedzialek
540th Engineer Combat Regiment, 2833rd Bn, H&S Co, 4th Platoon
There's "No Bridge Too Far"